Ellen and her friend were a few drinks in over the weekend and started to talk about the "codes" they've had with guys. If you're just hooking up it feels trashy to say "hey come over" so there's always a weird code. Ellen had a guy who would always ask her if she wanted to go to his place and watch a movie. Her friend said for years she and the same guy have said "do you wanna come over and smoke" even if neither of them have weed. Other people have to have codes, right? Especially parents with kids i assume...?